A civil society depends not only on limits to government power, but on how citizens choose to wield their own freedoms. A people who use every inch of their liberty to cancel, boycott, dox, and mob their opponents do not create freedom—they create totalitarianism. This bottom-up coercion is the very essence of what makes societies unfree, though few seem to grasp it.
Some arguments are stronger, more respectful, and more constructive than others. But even poor arguments, ad hominems, and ridicule are still arguments. The essential boundary is this: whatever form debate takes, it must remain in the public square—never spilling over into coercion, cancellation, or efforts to ruin lives outside it.
But English gives us no good word for this virtue. “Tolerance” is too weak, too suggestive of being nice, too indulgent. It fails to capture that one can be combative, devastating, and even cruel in rhetoric, while still drawing a strict ethical line against coercion. There is no ready-made term that names this essential civic stance.
It’s time we coin one: Civil Savage.
The oxymoron says it all. “Civil” signals the respect for boundaries, for keeping the fight within discourse, for refusing mob coercion. “Savage” signals the freedom to attack, to ridicule, to devastate ideas in the public square. Together, the phrase perfectly captures the stance that societies must recover if they wish to remain free: a society of citizens willing to be savages in argument, but civil enough never to cancel, coerce, or destroy outside it.